I know I make being in a band sound like a lot of fun. There’s a lot of banter, a lot of great incidents, some fun songs to play.
But there’s something important you need to know if you’re thinking of starting a band or joining one: You need to make sure your goals align with those of your bandmates. If you’re committed to playing your instrument to the best of your abilities, make sure your bandmates are the same. If you are trying to be Joe Satriani, don’t get in a band with cats who want to be The Ramones.
Likewise, if you’re content to be sloppy but fun, you’d better not hook up with a drummer who worships at Neil Peart’s altar.
And here’s something else: If you try it, and you just never feel right in the situation or it stops being fun, there’s no shame in saying “Guys, this is the wrong band for me.” If you’re not having fun, your bandmates won’t either. So don’t prolong it, and don’t do yourself a disservice by doing something you’re not loving.
